- Nov 11, 2025
Why the law of attraction is not working out for you?
- Carlijn Van de Star
- Nervous System
“Ever notice how some people just radiate confidence without saying a word? That’s integrated embodiment and it activates organically the law of attraction by nature NOT by force and it’s why they attract everyone, places and things in life naturally.”
Today i want to dive deeply in the topic "law of attraction" i believe this is very overhyped in an old way these days and not well connected to the truth that i figured out on my own journey.
Now mastering the law of attraction is not something we can think ourselves only into it, we need to match the coherence between the body, mind, spirit and emotional body i call this embodiment. I tried for years doing the affirmations, coaching and so many things from my mind ONLY, the mental body. But i never worked for me. I felt trapped and looping in my mind and not home and safe enough in my beautiful body.
In this blog i dive deeper about how to embody the law of attraction by nature instead of forcing it from the mind only what blocks the natural flow of attraction against source/God, it repels instead of feeling the law of attraction in the whole body is a different game then coming from the mind. This is what we call alignment between the physical, mental, emotional and spiritual body. Stay with me where i will dive in this topic deeper now:
Law of attraction
What is law of attraction NOT?
GoddEssence radiance & coming back home to the body
The universal laws
Conclusion about the law of attraction
What is the law of attraction anyhow?
The Law of Attraction is a philosophical and metaphysical concept that suggests you attract into your life what you focus on, think about, and feel most strongly. In simple terms:
“Like attracts like.”
Here’s how this is generally explained:
Thoughts are energy.
Every thought and emotion you have sends out a vibrational frequency.The universe responds to your vibration.
The energy you emit (through thoughts, beliefs, and feelings) draws back experiences that match that same frequency.Focus creates reality.
When you focus on abundance, love, and confidence — you begin to notice and attract more of those experiences. Likewise, focusing on fear, lack, or doubt tends to attract more of that energy.
It’s Not Just Wishing
The Law of Attraction isn’t only about positive thinking, it’s really about alignment. You attract what matches your inner world, not just what you say or only think what you want.
What is law of attraction NOT?
From my point of view law of attraction is not the overhyped affirmations, meditations and what so ever. You can keep on trying doing this and still feeling trapped. What i mean by feeling trapped?
So as i said before, we dont have only a physcial body we have 3 other bodies, the mental, emotional and spiritual bodies. When one of them is not aligned back to the organic nature (state) it keeps on looping into a static level of awareness where it seems that one is looping, stagnation but basically its yearning to come back to its organic state.
Now that is to me true embodiment and how the law of attraction is hyped, these days, that is to me not the full truth. I remembered the book the secret and i was very intrigued by it. Because it felt that there was a kind of truth but i always knew from within this is / was not the whole truth.
The thing is, when we know the whole truth we are responsible to embodying this.
GoddEssence radiance & coming back home to the body?
So when we go even deeper what is this embodiment for real all about, to me it is about breakingthrough all the false layers within the 4 bodies that blocks the organic flow of the law of attraction.
The moment we work through the false layers to realign this back into the organic alignment we notice that a natural effect of this is that we feel much more alive, happier, radiant and so go on. One remembers the nature of not only God but the GoddEssence in it (the feminine essence of creation).
How we bring back the 4 bodies into alignment and home, this can be done via different systems but the most important thing is that coming home to the body is somatic work. Somatic work really did it for me because i was looping in so many systems outside myself like astrology, human design via the mind etc instead of coming home to the body.
The universal laws & the law of attraction
The law of attraction is not only the main law (law of correspondence), you have many other laws to learn about:
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Law of mentalism:
Connected to the root chakra
Aries
Mars
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Law of Correspondence:
Connected to what we call the law of attraction, it is connected to the sacral chakra
Taurus
Venus
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Law of Polarity:
Connected to solar plexus
Gemini
Mercury
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Law of Rhythm:
Connected to the heart
Cancer (the home in the body)
Moon/Jupiter
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Law of Suggestion:
Connected to the throat chakra
Leo
Sun
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Law of Response:
Connected to 3th eye
Virgo
Mercury/Jupiter
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Law of Cause and Effect:
Connected to crown chakra
Libra
Venus/Saturn
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Law of Transformation:
Connected to soulstar chakra
Scorpio
Pluto
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Law of Transcendence:
Connected to soulstar chakra
Ophiuchus
Chiron
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Law of Verification:
Connected to solar christ mind
Saggitarus
Jupiter
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Law of Cycles:
Connected to buddic mind
Capicorn
Saturn
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Law of Vibration:
Connected to avatar mind/avatar body
Aquarius
Uranus
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Law of Gender:
Connected to hieros gamos union template
Pisces
Neptune
So as you can see we aren't only dealing here with the law of attraction there are many universal laws we are dealing with on this earthly plane. This works through us thats why astrology/human design is so relevant it touches these natural laws and as you see above i connect these laws to 13 zodiacs this was the original zodiac mapping before it was fallen via the current calendar into 12 zodiacs.
And keep in your heart and mind that the astrology, human design is not the outside God here its a remembrance of our organic blueprint and how the current planets/astrology affect us/our bodies on a daily base. But the more one comes back to their organic nature the less one is interested in hyperfocusing on outside tools. Its about returning home, back to our godly source, to the inner garden.
Conclusion about the law of attraction?
So with all the information of above about the law of attraction what is connected to the law of correspondence, Taurus/sacral chakra we must remember that in order to live in alignment to with all those laws we need to do the inner work to come home to our neutral field.
I can hear you thinking, what is the neutral field at all?
To me this is the body, the soma, the inner child, home, the inner garden when we are connected to our pure essence this is when we enter the neutral field grounded and embodied this is to me the neutral field where we feel truly alive again in the resonance aligned back to source/God.
Now these days it is for many and also what i have bin thru so sacred to truly feel. Because of traumas, programming etc and thats why many are stuck in their emotional or mental body and aren't truly grounded into their bodies. It is scared, i get that. But the more one does the inner work and are breaking through the layers of different blocks that are found in the different bodies the more one comes back to their neutral field.
And this is why i do love so deeply to work with woman to breaktrough layers of years of frozen tension so that one can come back more and more to their true alignment with source. You can always book an session with me to go deeper into this.
With so much love, Carlijn